Be honest to yourself(including myself), accept who you are and if you have anything in your mind, just voice it out. However, since we have been taught to be nice to other people (usually in eastern cultures), and not to arguing something especially in front of the elders, so, it seems to be really hard to be implemented.
If you ask me what I wanna do to realize to change people’s mind, several actions are required (as one of the community service);
- each person should be really open-minded (how to do that?).
- each person should be exposed on what happen surround them(‘locally’ and ‘internationally’).
- give them an encouragement (especially to male youngsters – male never cry and must be tough) that it is not a wrong thing to express their feeling about something.
Honestly, I can’t do all the actions by myself and of course it will takes a long time to see some changes, especially for each person’s attitude and behavior.