Meaningful Speech by Pulitzer Prize winner: Anna Quindlen

Guys, utk dikongsi bersama terutamanya kepada yang tgh buat Phd dan atau yang tengah mempertimbangkan untuk berjuang bagi mencapai tahap akademik yang tertinggi (PhD ler tuh). Amat menyentuh perasaan dan membawa penuh pengertian dalam kehidupan.

Nak tahu lebih lanjut tentang Anna Quindlen, bolehlah ke sini ataupun ke sini.

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This was a speech made by Pulitzer Prize-winning author, Anna Quindlen at the graduation ceremony of an American university where she was awarded an Honorary PhD.

“I’m a novelist. My work is human nature. Real life is all I know. Don’t Ever confuse the two, your life and your work. You will walk out of here this afternoon with only one thing that no one else has. There will be hundreds of people out there with your same degree: there will be thousands of people doing what you want to do for a living. But you will be the only person alive who has sole custody of your life. Your particular life. Your entire life. Not just your life at a desk, or your life on a bus, or in a car, or at the computer. Not just the life of your mind, but the life of your heart. Not just your bank accounts but also your soul.

People don’t talk about the soul very much anymore. It’s so much easier to write a resume than to craft a spirit. But a resume is cold comfort on a winter’s night, or when you’re sad, or broke, or lonely, or when you’ve received your test results and they’re not so good.

Here is my resume: I am a good mother to three children. I have tried never to let my work stand in the way of being a good parent. I no longer consider myself the centre of the universe. I show up. I listen. I try to laugh. I am a good friend to my husband. I have tried to make marriage vows mean what they say. I am a good friend to my friends and they to me. Without them, there would be nothing to say to you today, because I would be a cardboard cut out. But I call them on the phone, and I meet them for lunch. I would be rotten, at best mediocre at my job if those other things were not true.

You cannot be really first rate at your work if your work is all you are. So here’s what I wanted to tell you today: Get a life. A real life, not a manic pursuit of the next promotion, the bigger pay cheque, the larger house. Do you think you’d care so very much about those things if you blew an aneurysm one afternoon, or found a lump in your breast?

Get a life in which you notice the smell of salt water pushing itself on a breeze at the seaside, a life in which you stop and watch how a red-tailed hawk circles over the water, or the way a baby scowls with concentration when she tries to pick up a sweet with her thumb and first finger.

Get a life in which you are not alone. Find people you love, and who love you. And remember that love is not leisure, it is work. Pick up the phone. Send an email. Write a letter. Get a life in which you are generous. And realize that life is the best thing ever, and that you have no business taking it for granted. Care so deeply about its goodness that you want to spread it around. Take money you would have spent on beer and give it to charity. Work in a soup kitchen. Be a big brother or sister. All of you want to do well. But if you do not do good too, then doing well will never be enough.

It is so easy to waste our lives, our days, our hours, and our minutes. It is so easy to take for granted the color of our kids’ eyes, the way the melody in a symphony rises and falls and disappears and rises again. It is so easy to exist instead of to live.

I learned to live many years ago. I learned to love the journey, not the destination. I learned that it is not a dress rehearsal, and that today is the only guarantee you get. I learned to look at all the good in the world and try to give some of it back because I believed in it, completely and utterly. And I tried to do that, in part, by telling others what I had learned. By telling them this: Consider the lilies of the field. Look at the fuzz on a baby’s ear. Read in the back yard with the sun on your face. Learn to be happy. And think of life as a terminal illness, because if you do, you will live it with joy and passion as it ought to be lived”.

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p/s Thank you so much kpd sdra abg ekhsan atas maklumat ini.

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About marahman

I'm proud to be Sarawakian, has a job as a university lecturer and researcher. Currently, I'm doing my PhD in Requirement Specifications using Formal Engineering Method, at Hosei University, Tokyo, Japan.
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3 Responses to Meaningful Speech by Pulitzer Prize winner: Anna Quindlen

  1. Watashi Azaruuu says:

    mmmmmmmmmm……penuh makna yg mendalam…..anyway setiap kita melalui perjalanan hidup yg berbeza walau pun hakikat dan arah tuju destinasinya adalah sama.

    “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched – they must be felt with the heart”.

    ceh!…ntah betul ke tidak bahasa jawa yg aku guna nih…..aku pun tak tau main belasah jer…kalau silap tolong betulkan…

    ARM’s Re: Hentam sajer lah labu…yang penting apa yang disampaikan itu difahami…no problem to me.

  2. nana says:

    susah nak kata. segalanya dah bermula dan susah nak undur. ambil phd sebab nak cuti. risau tengok anak-anak membesar dengan cabaran yang begitu hebat. 1 sem berlalu begitu saja. tak tau bagaimana nak start tulis. mencari motivasi menulis. bingung mencari jalan menuju matlamat.

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